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Divorce happens to good people, and it hurts. It is a betrayal by the one person who promised to love you for the rest of your life. The one person you thought you could trust is gone, and now your spouse is making demands. This is a difficult time in your life. The things that you value the most are on the line - your children, your home, your money, and your future.

You have worked hard to build your life, and now, you face the prospect of losing just about everything in a divorce. You are worried. What will your future look like? How will you get by? Every aspect of your life is now affected by divorce. You are in need of someone who will advocate for your rights. Hopefully, you will be able to minimize the conflict by negotiating a settlement out of court, but you need someone who is strong and professional.

Jeremy and Melissa were fortunate enough to have good attorneys to help them through the divorce process when they decided to part ways after just two years of marriage. They halready ad three children together, so Jeremy and Melissa worked with their lawyers to draft a Marital Settlement Agreement without having to go to court. For them, the divorce process was straightforward, low stress and fast.

While divorce is wreaking havoc on your life and your emotions, you need a caring and strong voice to protect you. You are in no state to think clearly, yet this is the time in your life when you have to make important decisions about your future. You must divide your home, your children and your finances. How is this even possible? Where do you begin?

A skilled attorney can gently guide you through the process by listening to your concerns and your goals. As your attorney, the first thing I do is educate my clients about the process. If you understand the steps, you will be able to see a light at the end of the tunnel and be able to think more clearly. Below is a general guide explaining the California divorce process.

In California, either spouse can obtain a divorce at any time for any reason. This is why California is labeled as a no-fault state. It does not matter if you want a divorce and your spouse does not. Your spouse cannot block the divorce, and you do not need permission from your spouse to obtain one. No one needs to let you get a divorce; the fact that you want a divorce and your spouse does not is called irreconcilable differences . This is a basis for a divorce in California.

A no-fault divorce also means the terms of a divorce are not dependent upon either party's behavior. It does not matter if one person was bad and one person was "good" during the marriage. The result of the property division will still the same. Unless one spouse's behavior affects his/her ability to be a good parent, the court will not even allow testimony about all the bad things one person did to the other. This is what is meant by a "no-fault state."

Because California is a no-fault state, it always takes at least six months and one day to get a divorce. The six months does not actually begin until the divorce paperwork has been filed, and the Respondent (the party who did not file the first set of divorce papers has been properly served. This six month timeframe is called a "waiting period." The waiting period is designed to make sure both spouses have had enough time to think about the decision to divorce before the court dissolves the marriage. If, at the end of the six months, either party still desires a divorce, the court will dissolve the marriage.

Since a divorce does not happen automatically, at least one person must always file the appropriate paperwork to move the case along. At all stages, it is up to at least one party to notify the court that the waiting period has expired, that the Respondent has not filed an answer, or to request a hearing in front of a judge. Even after appearing in court, the divorce paperwork must be prepared and filed in order to put the judge's orders in writing. Many times, it is up left up to the parties' divorce attorneys to make sure the divorce moves along toward a judgment by filing the correct papers in the right order and appearing in court whenever necessary.

Family Attorneys serving the Temecula, Murrieta, and Hemet areas of Riverside County, California, including Menifee, Wildomar, Winchester, Canyon Lake, and Lake Elsinore. Our practice is limited to family law, including issues involving divorce, paternity, legal separation, annulment, child custody and visitation, child support, spousal support, attorney fees, post-judgment modifications, division of property, and domestic violence.

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